Showing posts with label BF. Show all posts
Showing posts with label BF. Show all posts

Thursday, 16 December 2010

HFMD and the allergy

They said hand-foot-mouth disease (HFMD) is a very common disease among children attending daycare. I was hoping that by breastfeeding, my son would not catch this contagious disease. But one day, his caregiver suddenly called at 9.30am to tell me that he have a fever and some rashes on both his knees. So I brought him to his paed and it was confirmed as HFMD. There were also blisters in his mouth. Poor baby. And the next day was his first birthday somemore. Luckily he still want to nurse. My mom came to take care of him at home.

And then there's my supply. It's been going down and down. The last time I pumped at work, I'd only managed to get 2 oz! It was so frustrating. I planned to fully bf Bono until he's 2 yo. But I failed!! And there's not much I can do because it's hormonal (this will be in another post). So we decide to introduce formula for his feed at the daycare.

Do you know that choosing a formula can be sooo overwhelming? We went to Servay on Friday night, after almost an hour at the formula aisle, we chose Mamex Gold Langkah 2. It was the same brand that he took almost a year ago at the clinic - while I was hook with the drips both left and right :(.

We tried to feed him 4 oz of the formula on Saturday afternoon. He took it but than vommited it all out after about 2.5 oz. We thought his guzzling down the milk causes this because after that he still wants what was left in the bottle. So we let him finished it. Within minutes, hives appear on his cheeks, neck, and behind his ears. It was terrifying!

We rushed to his paed again. And it was confirmed that my poor, poor baby is allergic to cow's milk. After about 2 hours, hives started to appear all over his body and he was so flushed that it scares the hell out of me. He screamed and tried to scratch everywhere until he fall asleep because of the Dexchloramine. I felt so sad and cannot help feeling guilty for not being able continue bf him fully.

The paed suggested we switch to goat's milk instead. And this is what he's been taking until now:

Very expensive formula (huhuhu). But yesterday we went to see the paed again for Bono's jab and he was concerned that Bono is not gaining weight. He's been at 8.75 kg since he was 9 mo. He kept reminding us to feed him well and to include both meat and eggs in his diet. Both of us were like, "Yes, doc he is eating all those" but he kept giving this funny look. Ciss, tak percaya ya? He should see Bono eat, this boy could REALLY eat and he want to eat everything that mummy is eating. So no more junk food for me (well, at least not in front of him hehe).

So we were asked to switch to another brand of goat's milk formula. It's called 'Carina' and only available at pharmacy. I tried googling it and failed. Maybe it's Karihome?
Never mind lah, we'll visit the pharmacy next week. There is still one full tin of the Why Not? But why do people feel immediate concerned to see a smaller baby? It's like chubby is equal to healthy. Because as far as I can see Bono is healthy, happy, reaching all milestones and he's growing taller instead of gaining any weight.

Okay, this post is getting too long that I feel I'm writing a school essay. So before I stop here's some differences between food allergy and food intolerance, in this case cow's milk.

P/S: How do you make a post in a table form? I typed the above using Word and then copy it to Paint and saved it as image so that I can upload it here. And now it's sooo small. So click on it to make it larger.

Thursday, 22 April 2010

Something to ponder...

I'm very interested with this program. Need to make sure there won't be any other activity on that day. To make up my mind before 14th of May.

Monday, 30 November 2009

Bad advice on BF

So glad to be back at our own home. Spent the weekends at hubby's kg to celebrate my son's full moon. The party went great and I enjoyed seeing and "updating" with my friends after my long confinement. But what I can't stand is the advices given by well meaning ILs regarding BF. I don't mind the advices itself but the way they gave it yang bikin panasss. Like, they insist you to follow exactly what they say.

Here's some:

  1. This one from my MIL. The moment she saw me BF my son she said, "You should train your baby to drink from bottle (meaning formula) so that other people can babysit him." I just smiled. Hubby came to the rescue, explaining about EBM, pumping etc etc.
  2. One time I woke up my son to BF because my breasts were engorged and I did not bring my pump. Later on, the elder said that next time I should picit2 my breast first to kasih keluar some of the susu yang bangas. I was speechless. Breastmilk that is still in the breast can spoil meh! I never read this but logically thinking there's nothing wrong with BM no matter how long it stays in the breasts (if it's possible than all mom can produce cheese from their breast lorr). The only risk is your breast becoming painfully engorged and sometimes can lead to blocked duct.
  3. Than my SIL told me to give some water to my son. Which I totally refuse. And she was so unsatisfied that she repeat it again to my hubby. Luckily my hubby is so well informed (after hearing my "sharing" on BF). And he said, "No, we won't give our baby any water until he starts to eat solid". Hahaha, I win. But now I'm sooo nervous to let her babysit (hai, mana tau she give water oh).
  4. Now my SILs know how stubborn I am (yes, I may keep quiet and won't confront you or talk back but I won't do what I don't want to), they rally on my hubby. Kesian hubby but it's ok because he can answer back his own sisters. They keep pressuring to use formula milk. The reason? Baby more intelligent. Excuse me? Are you insulting me? Do you mean to say that MY breast milk will produce dumb baby? Just because FM is very expensive compare to BM, which is totally free, doesn't make it more superior. FM is man made. How can it ever be in the same league with BM?
  5. And they said that the rashes on my son's face is cause by my heaty BM. No comment.
Nasib baik my son is quite a big baby. At least they can not say that my BM is not enough. I'm so so thankful that my mom took care of me during confinement. She support BF 100%. Me and my siblings are all fully breastfed. I was breastfed until I was 4 yo because my little sister is 8 years younger than me. Aaand my mother, that never had any formal education, knows that fully breastfed babies don't need any extra water. Cool.

P/S: My ILs are actually great and I really do get along well with them. This is just a letting-off-steam session.

Wednesday, 26 August 2009

Urgh...time to decide

One of the items in my shopping list this month is breast pump. I've listed 3 recommended brands: Medela, Spectra and Ameda. Spectra is definitely out because it's not battery operated - if time kerja teda karan, how? So at first I wanted to get the Ameda because the Medela that I want is way out of my budget.

After some research I found an e-store that sells Ameda Lactaline Dual for RM699 (for the pump only, no freebies) including shipping. Then today, I went to Happy Mums after my appointment with Dr S (BTW my blood sugar level is fine now, hooray!). And right now there are selling both Spectra (of course, I'm still not interested) and Medela PIS & Mini E Plus. Buying PIS would totally screw my budget for this month. But the Mini E are selling for RM799 (including 4 storage bottles, cooler bag,cooler and a bag to carry everything). I'm definitely interested with this one.

Then I made some research on the net and found out that Mini E is recommended for occasional use only (about 4 times a day) whereas Ameda is suitable for frequent use. But then if anything happen to Mini E, I could always go to Happy Mums or buy any spare parts there. Since I'll be buying Ameda from the net, it won't be that easy.

So, I'm still thinking about these:


Plan to visit survey Mothercare today, see if they are selling any breast pump. But hubby is still napping, so I'll just continue surfing the net first.